Sample Love Letter
To,
104 Main Street,
Philip hens
Date:-
I was driving home today and listening to the oldies channel on the radio when I heard the Righteous Brothers singing, “You’ve Lost That Loving Feeling.” It just made me think of us, especially when they sang, “something beautiful is dying.” I remembered how we were when we first got married and how you couldn’t wait to get home to see me and nothing was important enough to keep us apart. We were so happy then, and life was so good that I thought it would last forever. Lately, though, I’m worried that something is happening to us and you really are losing that loving feeling.
Now it seems you stay at work later and later and have started going out of town on unscheduled business trips without me. I can’t remember the last time we went out to dinner together or to a movie, or even spent an entire evening at home relaxing. We used to share our deepest secrets with each other, but now we hardly even talk anymore. When we first got married, nothing I ever did seemed to annoy you, but lately, as in the song, you “criticize little things I do” more and more often. I’m beginning to worry that something beautiful really is dying and wonder if it’s because another woman has come between us.
I want you to know I still love you. You’re the only man I’ve ever loved and my stomach turns over when I think about you leaving. Do you still love me or have you found someone else? I need to know where I stand and I don’t want to imagine things that aren’t true. The strain of worrying is already starting to take its toll, so please be honest with me. I need to know what is on your mind and what you are planning to do. There’s no point in trying to save this relationship if you’ve already found someone else and there’s nothing left to save.
If you’re not seeing anyone else and we have other problems, maybe we should think about going to a marriage counselor. A third party might help us get everything out in the open. Counselors try to remain neutral because they know that’s the only way to help people to reach an understanding. It might be worth a try if you still love me.
As it is, I don’t want to continue the way we are any longer. Without total commitment to each other, we really don’t have a relationship worth saving, and we would be better off separated. There’s an old saying that two’s company and three’s a crowd, so please let me know if I’m the one who’s crowding you. If not, I’m willing to work at improving our relationship, but only if you are, too. You need to decide–soon. I’m waiting for your answer.
Regards,
Sarvesh
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